Dating

What to Do if He is Playing the Field

If your date lets you know that he isn’t interested in anything serious then you should make a decision.  Are you going to be ok with dating him if you know that he is going to be with other women?  If you are fine with that then there shouldn’t be any problems whatsoever.  However, even if you are just a little bit jealous then it might not be a good idea to get involved.

A lot of women might think that they could be the one to convince him to only stay with them.  While this may be true in some cases, in most cases if the guy is letting you know, then it is probably a lifestyle that he enjoys.  Trying to change him in this aspect might just push him away.

If you are just looking for some fun times with nothing serious in mind, then this kind of guy would be perfect for you.  If you are looking for a relationship, then this guy would be the absolute worst for you so watch out.

Share Your Favorite Dessert

Food is often considered very sensual.  Even more so is dessert.  There is just something pleasing and decadent about a dessert.  You know you shouldn’t have it, but you can and you will and it is just incredibly satisfying to have that kind of power.

So, on your date, you should order your favorite dessert and share it with your date.  You should of course find out if they have any allergies or dislikes in the dessert.  If they do, then you can modify your selection so that both of you can enjoy it.

Dessert can be foreplay.  Well, it really depends on how yummy the dessert is, but it can definitely lead to love making later if you play your cards right.  So, if you want to have a sexy after dinner treat, then pick a dessert that you can both share.

Dealing with a breakup – it’s time to start looking after you!

When women break up with a man, they go through a ritual that involves new hair, weight loss, a new closet and basically making themselves as beautiful as possible. This works as a way to meet and woo new men but also as a great big “In your face!” for the guy that they left behind. It’s a shame that many men do not do the same thing! Come on guys, it’s time to start taking care of yourself. At least bring something good about from that terrible break up!

The first port of call is skin care. Make sure that you buy some good quality skin products and a great new razor. The days where you and her used to share razors are now long gone so why not treat yourself to the newest and most expensive one that you can get your hands on? You will feel great with your new baby soft skin and women will love your efforts!

You need to start with the first impressions business now seeing as you are back on the dating scene so it makes sense to make your skin as well conditioned and soft as possible. There are plenty of brands that now offer skin care products for men and it is not as frowned upon now as it once was. Get a good quality facial wash and a lovely moisturizer, (you can even get away with buying women’s products if you want o pass them off as they ex’s when the lads come around for beers!) and start taking care of you!

Fighting on the First Date?

There’s nothing like an argument to get the blood pumping and to get passions soaring like a good fight.  Now fighting on the first date doesn’t sound like a very good idea, but a heated debate can produce the same effect.  As long as you know how to keep it from turning into a walk out from your date, then you should be just fine.

In order for a good debate to happen you will need some information and a few skills.  Find a very heated topic online.  Study the different views that people have on it.  Actually, you will want a few topics, because you may be meeting with someone that has very similar opinions to yours.

Starting the debate is as easy as asking your date what they think of the topic.  Now, here is the important thing.  Try not to say things that are highly inflammatory when stating your opinion.  If you can keep it at the level of a civilized debate it can really act as an aphrodisiac.

A good controlled debate is a fun way to keep the date interesting and exciting.

5 special ways to get your girl back

Have you done something rather stupid that has put an end to your relationship? Maybe you have cheated or simply not treated your girlfriend as she should have been treated? If these scenarios are the case then you will need to do something special in order to get your ex back and there are 5 special ways that you can do so:

1.       Speak to your girlfriend’s mother. Let’s face it, you will have a much higher chance of getting your girlfriend back if you get her Mom onside and she will be able to fill you in on little snippets of information that will lend a helping hand. Not only that but you will really show that you are willing to do whatever it takes in order to win back her affections.

2.       Flowers are an old cliché when it comes to relationships but let’s be honest, they often work especially when you team them with a powerful apology letter or card. This would also make much more of an impact if you send them in a public place such as the place in which she works. She is going to find it hard to refuse in front of people!

3.       Don’t avoid her, go and actually see her to apologize. It is easy to say that you are sorry when you are not face to face so make the effort and try to talk to your girlfriend in person.

4.       If she needs time, give her some time. Hounding her every five minutes of every day is not going to help your cause and in actual fact, you are more likely to push her away. Give her a break and some time to think and then try again.

5.       Don’t make promises that you have no intensions of keeping. Let’s say you never spend Saturday nights with her because it is “boy” night – don’t make a promise to spend this night of the week with her when in reality, the promise will last a few weeks and then things will go back to normal!